Tarraguña on December 16th, 2008

I ordered two different wedding dresses.  Feel free to leave comments on which one you like best.  I can wear either option 1 or option 2.

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Tarraguña on December 9th, 2008

Yesterday out of the blue my future mother in law decided she did not like me anymore.  I can’t say it was totally out of the blue.  If you read the part 1 and part 2 about our trip to Arizona it describes how I expressed my discomfort in staying in my future brother in [...]

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Tarraguña on December 4th, 2008

Yesterday’s post became too long and I decided to split it up.  If you have not read the first part you can read it here or just scroll down the page until you find it.
Arizona: just out side of Tucson and I can’t beleive this picture came out so good as it was taken with [...]

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Tarraguña on December 3rd, 2008

I hate it when there is some snafu on the last day of a trip.  It always leaves a bad taste in my mouth and leaves me with a bad feeling about the entire trip.  I have to talk myself out of feeling bad about the whole darn thing and look at it intellectually. 
We [...]

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Tarraguña on November 3rd, 2008

I must admit that I was not prepared for the quasi ambush last night, but then again I never usually am. Family should not be a battleground but it always ends up that way. Well, in my case as I usually try to do things that are not part of the normal template [...]

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Tarragua on September 16th, 2008

I take a deep breath and it is still there at the top of my throat.  Stress manifesting in the form of physical tension in my body filling me full up to my throat.   I can’t make it go away.  I have reached a threshold and thus this tension will be here present for the [...]

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Tarragua on August 22nd, 2008

Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday went by without writing. I am finally back. I realized I have a lot to share. First I have to share what I saw today on PostSecret. Now I am not 36 nor would I say my mother hates me, more like dosen’t like me because she does not [...]

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I was wondering if parents ever listen to their children. I had this romanticized idea that as the children get older the parents listen more as they are interested in who their child has become or they just have more time because they are not so stressed out. In my case that romanticized [...]

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Tarragua on July 2nd, 2008

I have felt quite tired the last few days. I am feeling like I am in a funk and can’t seem to find my way out. I think it has to do with the fact that I have seen my extended family a lot lately. I always feel as if I cease to [...]

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Tarragua on July 1st, 2008

Since Rog3r’s Mom moved we have not got a chance to visit her. I was thinking today that flying out to see her for Thanksgiving would be fun. But I have decided to go over the pros and cons below.

Pros
Cons

Visit Rog3r’s Mom (who we have not seen in 10 months)
My Mom will be livid( even [...]

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